Feeling alone

[Namaste]

Are they any abductees in the LA area on this forum? It's been hard to find someone else to talk to. A few times I thought I had made a new open minded "friend" but turns out their intentions were different from what I had hoped. Is there any group somewhere I can go besides online? I do go to events like expos and MUFON but haven't been able to connect with other local experiencers or someone open minded about aliens.

[Moon]

I found this on the web and hope this helps:

http://www.abduct.com/support.php

I hope you find the support you need to get through this traumatic event.

[Serene]

Namaste- I'm sure there are a few people on this forum that would be happy to talk with you about yours and their own experince.....

[angeloneastralseed]

You can PM us if you want to keep it under the radar.

[Moon]

PMing people is a great idea, but also look for chapters that could be near your area. I was surprised how many sites showed up when I put in the words abductee support groups. I know we all mean well here, but it is so much better to be face to face with real people discussing each experience and having the comfort right there in person.

[Namaste]

Thank you for your suggestions. I have tried to find a group in LA but I am surprised that there is none within the city limits. Posting online is not the same as in person human comfort. I need someone I can talk to when things happen....because lately they DON'T STOP HAPPENING.

[Moon]

Thank you for your suggestions. I have tried to find a group in LA but I am surprised that there is none within the city limits. Posting online is not the same as in person human comfort. I need someone I can talk to when things happen....because lately they DON'T STOP HAPPENING.

Have you tried to contact a kidnapping support group? I know they would need an open mind, but the incident you suffered through is the same thing they did when emotions are concerned. I do hope this is something you look at and wonder what the response would be.

[Namaste]

Have you tried to contact a kidnapping support group? I know they would need an open mind, but the incident you suffered through is the same thing they did when emotions are concerned. I do hope this is something you look at and wonder what the response would be.

I have gotten over my fears. I am back to identifying more with my aliens than people... just like when I was a kid. It feels bizarre, surreal, but most people don't understand that some people have side effects to encounters. I am unable to have a normal social life...I lost the love of my life because of these "abilities" and it gets lonely. I want to be a normal woman, going out with friends and date...but I cant control them. How the hell am I supposed to go to a real therapist and explain? Anyone want to give me some cheese to go with my "whine"?

[Moon]

I have gotten over my fears. I am back to identifying more with my aliens than people... just like when I was a kid. It feels bizarre, surreal, but most people don't understand that some people have side effects to encounters. I am unable to have a normal social life...I lost the love of my life because of these "abilities" and it gets lonely. I want to be a normal woman, going out with friends and date...but I cant control them. How the hell am I supposed to go to a real therapist and explain? Anyone want to give me some cheese to go with my "whine"?

Any therapist out there should be able to listen to you and help you. You have Stockholm Syndrome judging by what you are stating. They will never judge you or your claims. If they do, you can report them to the medical board in your state.

There is also a confidentiality agreement they are supposed to honor, so you do not need to worry about others finding out.

Many insurance companies now cover mental health and other costs related to seeing a therapist.

Never be ashamed to ask to see a therapist or seek one out. Many of us here have (including me) and I have nothing to be ashamed of. If nothing else, it is someone to talk to and try to get some ways to cope with what you have been through.

[mahalla2]

Well, don't feel alone there are plenty of people experiencing the same thing, however, it is just easier for most to try and explain everything away then deal with it. And you are trying to deal with it, so I hope others who are trying to help you but who have not experienced an abduction (visitation) themselves will not make it worse by saying you need to see a therapist. This is not something I like to dwell on either, but if you are being visited it probably has been taking place since childhood and they are (for whatever reasons) "relentless". And, yes, I believe they absolutely will try to get in between you and any personal relationships (you are not making this up in your mind) because you are without a doubt important to them.

[Moon]

Well, don't feel alone there are plenty of people experiencing the same thing, however, it is just easier for most to try and explain everything away then deal with it. And you are trying to deal with it, so I hope others who are trying to help you but who have not experienced an abduction (visitation) themselves will not make it worse by saying you need to see a therapist. This is not something I like to dwell on either, but if you are being visited it probably has been taking place since childhood and they are (for whatever reasons) "relentless". And, yes, I believe they absolutely will try to get in between you and any personal relationships (you are not making this up in your mind) because you are without a doubt important to them.

I figured some people might take the wrong meaning to this. I am not saying they are crazy when they go to see a therapist. I have been to mental therapy for other problems and they have been very good. I can tell them things that I know will be kept in confidence. I also know they can help you get your life back together from your traumatic experience. A good therapist will not tell you you are making it up. They will listen to you and also listen to the anxiety and other problems you have.

There may be some bad therapists out there, but the majority are very good. If one does not want to see a therapist, that is fine. But please do not attach a stigma to others who may find this is the best way to help deal with any traumatic experience.

If you decide not to do it, please make any decision on your own merit, not on my or others here. I am trying to help, and this is something that helped me. It may not be for everyone, but something is better than no help at all.

[mahalla2]

perhaps the best help is just honest communication then maybe one day we will all have the answers we seek -

[Moon]

perhaps the best help is just honest communication then maybe one day we will all have the answers we seek -

I do believe that is true, but the author of the post is having many problems adjusting to a normal life. This happens after many traumatic events, no matter what they are or what form they take. My suggestions are given to help the OP get on with their life and to try and help them get what aid they need to do so.

[Namaste]

Thank you for all your replies and concern,

The only way I can try to give a brief explanation (because I go on and on and on) is to say this. Since I was a child Ive had an obsession/fondness of my aliens. Whenever I had experiences my "senses" would be heightened and I would sense other peoples thoughts and emotions in my body...saw shadow people and other things that other people cant. Once I got older and forgot about my "other family" and was consumed with so much anger and pain I did not have any experiences that I could remember for a long time.

Once I got into my twenties it changed again. I got over my anger. My abilities became strong again...but it has been too hard to try and be normal around people. I struggle with always wondering if my thoughts and feelings are my own. I pick up on other people's emotions/energy and I couldn't control it to the point where I had to isolate myself to feel sane. I saw doctors and psychiatrists....nothing helped. I rarely go out so my senses do not become overloaded. The rare chances I do it always ends in disaster and a it's a reminder how I'm not normal... I tried to go on a date with someone for the first time in YEARS and it was excruciating since it first started fine but it began to spiral...I know how I come off as weird or my actions are completely opposite of what I am thinking but people do not understand. I feel lonely. I want to meet other people like me. I want human connection...I want to be able to be around people and have fun...be a normal woman and go out....look cute and not have to worry about feeling someone's lust...date... enjoy a movie without fearing who I will sit next to or what I will do to embarrass myself once again....or being worried into letting myself get sucking into another persons emotion or thoughts(even if it is sexual) because I am so lonely I just want to be around someone.

Last year my experience with the small greys was so frightening that I could not function. My experience in January with my taller Grey helped me to get over my fear. I have known him my whole life...and could feel love from him that I rarely get from people. Through meditation I am able to communicate and they have given me physical responses using my senses and also the familiar mark on my right ear (In the beginning I dismissed their response using my sense of smell and sound to my request to see CG-so out came the mark!)

So where I am at....I feel closer to CG than any human.....I know its not normal....but what can I do...I need more help in dealing with my "abilities" and my loneliness. My Et's are not the problem. CG is my one source of comfort and helps to keep me moving forward to find others like me so I will not feel alone until he comes back... Its people who have no understanding, and I don't expect them to....it hurts to always feel alone

[Moon]

I hope we have been some help for you. I know my suggestion didn't go over well with others, but it was meant to deal with the issues of what you have been through, not about the actual incident itself. If I can think of something else or come across a group that can help you, I will let you know either here or by PM.

[mahalla2]

Thank you for all your replies and concern,

So where I am at....I feel closer to CG than any human.....I know its not normal....but what can I do...I need more help in dealing with my "abilities" and my loneliness. My Et's are not the problem. CG is my one source of comfort and helps to keep me moving forward to find others like me so I will not feel alone until he comes back... Its people who have no understanding, and I don't expect them to....it hurts to always feel alone

Namaste you are the only one who can change your situation if you want it changed. Whether the bad guys are grey, white, black,brown or green you need to remember that our worst battles are not with flesh and blood but with principalities and powers that want to derail a person from their true purpose. You have a very special purpose in this life Namaste do not let anyone or anything throw you off course -

[siren13]

I just caught this post today. So sorry you feel that way. In a very different way I can relate to how you feel. I had a therapist (when my insurance covered it) who believed in all sorts of things and did not judge me for having had ghostly experiences that in my past ultered my life in other ways. He was a true believer of all the stuff we discuss in this forum. Too bad he isn't in LA. He was a great guy. I have seen him out and about at local conferneces here in my area. he is also a friend of mine that does paranormal research. So trust us all here. You are not alone. No matter how alone you may feel.

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[Moon]

I just caught this post today. So sorry you feel that way. In a very different way I can relate to how you feel. I had a therapist (when my insurance covered it) who believed in all sorts of things and did not judge me for having had ghostly experiences that in my past ultered my life in other ways. He was a true believer of all the stuff we discuss in this forum. Too bad he isn't in LA. He was a great guy. I have seen him out and about at local conferneces here in my area. he is also a friend of mine that does paranormal research. So trust us all here. You are not alone. No matter how alone you may feel.

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That is why I recommend finding a great therapist. This story is a personal one and helps to show how a great therapist can help cope with the sometimes unexplained problems some of us go through in this life.

If a therapist judges you, they are not a good one.

[WeRaliens]

I have always been alone, too. Somebody talked to me the whole time I was a child. Somebody was in my room. I just don't remember seeing them. Adults were really harsh all the way around. I bonded to who ever was talking to me.They had a nice compassionate voice and seemed to always be listening to me. I wish I had seen them. I always ask somebody to show up, but they don't.
I was led to books in my middle twenties. These books were about spirits that talk through us. Seth was my favorite because he talked about physics and the parallel worlds that we live in. He said that we chose these lives to learn that we are energy beings that effect everything around us with our thoughts.
Scientists say now that parallel universes exist. I saw a show on National Geographic and PBS.
Also, you can read a book a physicist has written called Hands of Light. She has worked with the beings in another reality to heal people.She has built at least two colleges where a person can get a bachelor's degree.
You have talents and gifts. You are normal, more aware of your normalcy than most. We are energy beings. If not in these bodies, we would feel, see and hear everything.
I gained gifts from listening to whom ever was in my room. I have felt all kinds of energy and I am excited by it. I have felt peoples feelings enter my body. I have felt a being enter my body and leave. I have felt energy leave my body when I was praying for my son's ear ache. Once I felt a huge amount of energy when I saw someone fall to ground hurt. I had been reading about healing with energy.
Once I heard a voice in my head tell me to go talk to someone walking down the street. I said no. Again I was told to go talk to that man. So I did. He had a book called Living the Infinite Way by Joel Goldsmith. I picked up the book like I was supposed to. That was the start of my goosebumps.
How exciting to know that we are all vibrating god. Where is God but in us? That means we are built to heal ourselves. We are powerful being of light that can heal ourselves in a fast way. I have tried it. I have healed myself and my son several times. It was very over powering and I stopped. I could find no one to be my friend. Who understands anyway? People that write my favorite books understand.
I understand energy and voices.

[exangel]

I want to reach out to you Namaste, and I love the input given by WeRAliens.

I don't know if I have a lot to say for this post, except to start with, that Doctors and Psychiatrists are really the last source of real therapy at least in the US medical system. Their concern is primarily how to control what they will ultimately perceive as persistent delusions with medical and/or pharmaceutical treatment.

What I feel you really need is a counselor-type therapist or a trustworthy friend and I know those roles are really hard to find face to face, I truly understand that.
I haven't had a truly understanding soul in my life that actually stayed in touch since the death of my best friend in 2003. And so right now I don't even have that counselor or genuine, mutually understanding friendship I need face to face either.. and that is why a lot of times I write or daydream to my own entities, just to keep myself centered and motivated, since I haven't had waking-state "contact" for nearly ten years now and I don't expect to be visited or contacted anymore.

My own health care situation doesn't provide for therapy outside of membership in voluntary support groups run by a clinic in my area, and that type of therapy isn't really appropriate. I've really tried, and when I was a minor I actually tried being completely honest and that just complicated my care and release schedule.

What someone like us needs is one on one care and understanding, and I wish you the very best; if you get this, you're welcome to contact me by PM I will be happy to listen or talk, if you need. It sounds like your troubles are far more difficult than mine especially lately, but I've had some extremely difficult times of my own in the past and perhaps some of the things I've learned in the management my own mind existing in the reality of (unaware) others can be of help to you.